Persistent self-criticism
Mistakes feel like proof that something is wrong with you rather than part of being human.
Self-esteem support
Online counselling for self-esteem
Low self-esteem can affect confidence, relationships and the way you see yourself. Therapy can help you challenge negative beliefs and develop greater self-confidence and self-acceptance.
Last reviewed by the Online CBT Counselling clinical team.
Understanding your experience
How self-esteem can show up
Self-esteem is not about feeling confident all the time. Difficulties can show up as believing you are less worthy, hiding parts of yourself, dismissing strengths or depending heavily on external approval.
People-pleasing
Your needs are pushed aside because disagreement, rejection or disappointing others feels unsafe.
Avoiding visibility
You hold back from opportunities, relationships or speaking up because you expect judgement.
Discounting positives
Praise feels uncomfortable and achievements are explained away as luck or not good enough.
A practical way forward
How counselling can support self-esteem
Therapy can explore the experiences and rules that shaped your self-view. With compassion and curiosity, you can test old assumptions and practise expressing needs, boundaries and strengths.
Understand the origins of self-critical beliefs
Recognise strengths without dismissing them
Practise boundaries and assertive communication
Develop a more balanced inner voice
Your questions
Frequently asked questions
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Find The Right Therapist For YouTherapy is personal and outcomes vary. This service does not diagnose, guarantee outcomes or replace urgent mental health care.
